The Truth About Abundance: Healing to Align With What You Truly Want

When most people hear the word “abundance,” their minds immediately jump to money—having more of it, earning it faster, or holding onto it longer. I used to think the same way. I believed abundance was something I had to hustle for, something external that I needed to grasp and chase. But what I’ve learned—and what completely transformed my life—is that abundance is not about what’s in your bank account. It’s about what’s in your frequency.

Abundance is a vibration, a frequency you embody. And yes, this frequency can absolutely attract money, but it can also attract more time, fulfilling connections, supportive clients, or a lifestyle of joy and freedom. However, if you haven’t done the inner work to heal your wounds, let go of the programming that keeps you small, and release the belief that you have to constantly prove your worth, this same frequency of abundance can bring you everything you don’t want, too.

I’ve lived it. There was a time when I was working hard, showing up every day, and doing “all the right things,” but I still felt overwhelmed, undervalued, and not chosen. I was attracting plenty of abundance, but it was an abundance of stress, struggle, and situations that weren’t aligned with my highest good. Why? Because I was carrying unhealed wounds that told me I wasn’t good enough. I was still running on the outdated belief that I had to prove myself to be worthy of receiving. And until I healed that, the frequency I was putting out into the world reflected my inner chaos and lack of self-love.

✨The Power of Inner Peace

What I’ve come to understand is that true abundance begins within. You can’t create the abundance you truly desire—be it money, freedom, or love—without first creating it internally. That means stepping into a state of peace, joy, and self-worth. It means healing the stories and patterns that tell you you’re not enough and aligning yourself with the truth of who you are.

If you’re not at peace within yourself, even the abundance you attract will feel heavy. It might show up as clients who drain your energy, opportunities that bring more stress than satisfaction, or relationships that feel unbalanced. It’s all abundance, yes—but not the kind you want.

✨Aligning With the Right Kind of Abundance

So how do you shift into the frequency of abundance that aligns with your highest desires? It starts with clarity and honesty.

1.   Define Your True Abundance. Take a moment to ask yourself: What does abundance really look like for me? Is it financial freedom? Is it a career that lights you up? Is it more time with loved ones or the feeling of waking up every morning with peace in your heart? When you know what you’re aiming for, it becomes easier to notice what’s currently blocking you from it.

2.   Check Your Current Frequency. Look at what you’re attracting into your life right now. Are you surrounded by ease, joy, and fulfillment? Or are you encountering stress, struggle, and scarcity? Whatever you’re attracting is a reflection of your internal state. If you’re bringing in stress or lack, it’s time to go inward and uncover the wounds or beliefs that are holding you back.

3.   Do the Inner Work. This is where transformation happens. Healing the parts of you that feel unworthy or stuck is what allows you to align with your natural frequency of abundance, one that will bring you joy, fun, freedom and love. Letting go of old programming—like the belief that you need to prove yourself or hustle harder—frees you to step into a state of flow where abundance comes naturally and effortlessly.

✨My Journey

For me, this journey wasn’t quick or easy. It required me to sit with parts of myself I had been avoiding, to feel emotions I had buried, and to reprogram the stories I told myself about success, worthiness, and abundance. I had to learn what it meant to “choose yourself” and stand strong in it. But the moment I committed to healing from the inside out, everything shifted. I began attracting opportunities that aligned with my soul, relationships that uplifted me, and a life filled with the kind of abundance I used to dream of.

Abundance is available to you right now. It’s not about working harder or doing more. It’s about healing the parts of you that feel separate. When you do that, you don’t just attract abundance—you attract the right kind of abundance: the kind that feels light, joyful, and expansive.

You have the power to align with it. Start within. Your soul already knows the way.

If you’re ready to dive within, you can register to my Unlock Your Abundance Frequency program that starts at the end of January. 

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